Friends and Lovers, a community born in 2013, believes in fostering a space of acceptance. It's a place to unwind, express yourself freely, and connect with others. Whether you're seeking friendship, love, or simply a night of letting loose, we welcome you.
Most nights we have live performances (mostly comedy but some music) from 8pm and DJs from 10pm. Check our upcoming schedule for details.
This is 21+ venue.
We ask our patrons to be kind and patient with our staff and your fellow partygoers.
We have a zero tolerance policy for homophobia, transphobia, racism, xenophobia, and hate speech of any kind. Consent is a must. Always ask before you touch anyone. We reserve the right to ask you to leave if you do not respect our rules.
FnL is still keeping it fresh and fun. You can expect a dancey music experience, we tend to stay out of top 40. Feel free to go to the city for that. NO REQUESTS.
We love birthdays and celebrations, but we don’t do bottle service or have reserved seating.
If you’re trying to come with a large group (especially on the weekends) get here early - as close to 10:30 pm as possible. Due to the nature of our space, we do not host semi-private events, but if you’d like to have a private event please send a form here.
If you’d like to perform at Friends and Lovers, please send a submission to MUSIC@FNLBK.COM with a description of who you are, what you do and why you think your a fit for our space. Send links to your performances, DJ mixes, music, and past events. Due to the extremely high volume of submissions, we do not respond to everyone.
think you left something at the bar? We get it, too much fun! But if it’s Blue Chase card, get a new one. Otherwise, we re-open on Wednesday, you can come then. Feel free to also shoot us a dm on instagram and we’ll look at the bar for you.
With Love,
The FnL Team